17 March, 2013

The Birth Story :)

Well forgive me for not writing in forever, but things got hectic and stayed hectic and I just put my blog on the back burner, but now I am back at least with the birth story and I will try to keep more updated from here on out, even if it is only once a month.

Since I haven't written since we were 18 weeks I guess do a quick fill in of what the rest of the pregnancy was like before I get down to the birth. At 20 weeks we found out that there was a 75% chance that we were having a boy, that number continued to rise until it was confirmed at birth. He loved to show off his boy parts as often as he could at every ultrasound and in the last month and a half decided that it would be fun to hide his face so mommy and daddy had to guess what he looks like. The first time he hid his face behind his feet, the second time he curled into my back, and the third time he covered his face very blatantly with his hands. At the beginning of the third trimester my body decided that it was done with being pregnant, by that I mean anything that could ache started to ache. I ended up having to try out a chiropractor which didn't do a whole lot and then I indulged in a maternity massage that got all my knots out and allowed me to feel a ton better. Memphis was a very active child up until he was born, I had a lot of fun watching my stomach during the last trimester it would almost always be moving as he would shove his butt up on one side of my tummy and stick his elbow out the other side. Well that is about all that happened during the last trimester, once I get home and can look at my pregnancy book I will maybe add to this a little more or make another post.

Well on to the birth story, on 13 March we had an OB appointment and found out that Memphis wasn't gaining weight and was the same weight he was at our appointment the week before. We knew that he was going to be a small baby but were a little surprised at the fact that it was something that the OB wanted to induce for so that he can get out into the real world and enjoy boob food and get some weight on since he was only measuring at 5 pounds. Since we had a late appointment she couldn't get us set up with a perinatology appointment set up so we had instructions about having to wait til the next day and they will get back with us. So we went home and went to bed knowing that we may be induced the next day, which of course meant on 14 March I woke up bright and early at 0400, I was nervous and anxious and wanted to know whether by the end of the day I would be a mommy or not. I decided killing time was in our best interest seeing as it was so early that I read until it was time to take Jared to work then Sophia and I went shopping for some fun things for her to do as well as last minute socks, mittens and random little things that we hadn't gotten for baby yet. Then finally we got an appointment with perinatology, I sent Sophia with her mom in hopes that we would be delivering soon and went on in, they measured him and said he was measuring small (and with no hair) but that everything looked healthy and great and that there was no reason for them not to induce me. I left that appointment with the instructions to go get my hubby, get lunch, and come on in to be induced. By 1300 we were here at the hospital waiting, by 1600 we had my Daddy here and had contractions starting.

I cursed myself with saying that contractions weren't bad at all since I couldn't feel them and my Dad pointed out that they were only little contractions and not to wait too long to get the epidural so that I wasn't writhing in pain. So I waited it out a little while since I was only 1/2 cm dilated and only got IV pain medication instead of the epidural. At 2000 my OB came in and broke my water and the really intense horrible contractions started to the point that I couldn't handle them anymore, I was shaking and nearly crying with every contraction so I decided I really needed the epidural and got it. It made me a little sick but then I was fine and very nicely numb to the point that my feet were tingly like they were asleep. I was finally able to catch a little bit of sleep and was dilating really slow which gave my mom a chance get here. She got here at 0100 and I was at a 3+ in dilation. Then they checked me at 0200 and I was at a 5 so we all decided to take a nap since we had time. The nurses woke me up at 0330 and figured out that I was at a 10 and called my OB because it was time to get our baby boy here. They set up the room and at 0505 on 15 March after 13 hours of labor and 15 minutes of pushing Memphis Gene Madsen arrived. He weighed 5 pounds 1 ounce and was 17 inches long. He instantly latched just fine and has been eating like a champ every 1-3 hours. He has only lost 2 ounces since birth which is what they are watching the closest. He is maintaining his blood sugar perfectly, tested negative for jaundice, is maintaining his temperature great and has awesome lungs and heart functions. He also has had lots and lots of nice little dirty diapers, he is just our perfect little man.

Well here are some pictures of him after he was born and up til now. Today we get to take him home and he can hopefully meet his sister on this awesome St. Patrick's Day.

Getting weighed 5 lbs 1 oz

Daddy and Baby
First Picture

I love this picture

Me holding Memphis for the first time

Getting cuddles

Cuddling with Memphis between feedings

Nana Susie and Memphis

Getting loves from Nana

Sleepy Daddy and sleepy Memphis

Taking the pacifier for the first time

Linking his fingers all funny

Me sleeping with Memphis

Our Happy Little Family


We will post more later, hopefully the next picture will be the full family with Sophia meeting her baby brother. 

Maddy, Jared, Sophia
and Memphis


04 November, 2012

18 weeks

Hey Everyone,
Here is the second post of the week, since I was behind. And this will catch me up and I can post this week on time. Well here is the survey for this last week and I will post another one in a few days.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Sweet Potato

How far along?  
18 weeks

Due date:
04 April 2013

Total weight gain/loss:
Total of 10-15 lbs. since conception

Maternity clothes?
Officially can't fit in jeans.
 
Stretch marks?  
None

Sleep:  
Back hurts and is making it hard to sleep

Best moment this week:
Feeling the baby kicks get stronger.

Movement:  
Yes

Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
 
Food cravings:  
Coffee, Spicy Pickles

Symptoms:
Back Aches!
 
Gender prediction:
90% sure we know... Check in November to see what we are having for sure.
 
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
 
Belly Button in or out?
Still in
 
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Excited! I can't wait to get even further along.

What I miss:
Not having my back hurt

What I am looking forward to:
Having Jared feel the baby kick
 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off
 
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Happy
 
Weekly Wisdom:
You are pretty and crying doesn't make you any prettier

Milestones:
Feeling the baby all the time.

And here is the bump picture for the week.
Side belly 18 weeks excuse the look I didnt realize it was a pic including my face

Front Belly 18 weeks, once again excuse the look


Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi

29 October, 2012

17 Weeks

Hey Everyone,
I have been a huge slacker this week on updating my blog so I will have 2 posts this week. It has been an extremely hectic week, we rearranged our entire living room and are starting to get the kids room ready for the baby. We now have a chest of drawers set up thanks to my mom and full of both Sophia's and the baby's clothes, and we also have the recliner shampooed and ready. Now we just have to finish the crib and get it in there, set up and ready to go. I was 17 weeks as of last Sunday and have still been super tired and my body is making huge adjustments since I am so tiny. My back is feeling it very much so. The baby still loves kicking me and wouldn't hold still for the doctor at our last appointment for them to get a measurement. Well here is the survey for this last week and I will post another one in a few days.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Onion

How far along?  
17 weeks

Due date:
04 April 2013

Total weight gain/loss:
None so far since last time

Maternity clothes?
Should be in maternity pants, lots of stretchy clothes.
 
Stretch marks?  
None

Sleep:  
Tossy turny, the can't get comfortable phase has started.

Best moment this week:
Finding out 90% what we are having.

Movement:  
Yes

Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
 
Food cravings:  
Coffee, Spicy Pickles

Symptoms:
Back Aches!
 
Gender prediction:
90% sure we know... Check in November to see what we are having for sure.
 
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
 
Belly Button in or out?
Still in
 
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Excited! I can't wait to get even further along.

What I miss:
Not having my back hurt

What I am looking forward to:
Having Jared feel the baby kick
 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off
 
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Happy
 
Weekly Wisdom:
Grouchiness isn't welcomed. 

Milestones:
Feeling the baby all the time.

And here is the bump picture for the week.
17 week side bump

17 week front bump


Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi 

16 October, 2012

16 Weeks

Hey Everyone,
I am 16 weeks now and am getting very anxious to be halfway through our pregnancy. Ironically enough the second tri so far has been more draining than the first, I almost always tired and have been a bit queasy. The baby is loving kicking me and loves to do flips. I also think that last night I felt it move on the outside. Well here is the survey for this week.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Avacado

How far along?  
16 weeks 2 days

Due date:
04 April 2013

Total weight gain/loss:
None so far since last time

Maternity clothes?
Should be in maternity pants.
 
Stretch marks?  
None

Sleep:  
Great... can't get enough

Best moment this week:
Feeling the baby move all the time.

Movement:  
Yes

Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
 
Food cravings:  
Coffee, Jalepenos

Symptoms:
Aches and restless legs
 
Gender prediction:
75% sure we know... Check in November to see what we are having for sure.
 
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
 
Belly Button in or out?
Still in
 
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Excited! I can't wait to make sure we know what we are having!

What I miss:
Being able to dress comfortably

What I am looking forward to:
Being able to 100% feel the baby from the outside
 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off
 
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Happy
 
Weekly Wisdom:
Sleep when you can!
Milestones:
Feeling the baby all the time.

And here is the bump picture for the week.
16 week side

16 week front

Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi 
 PS I will post updated ultrasound pics and videos this week sometime

09 October, 2012

15 weeks

Hey Everyone,
I am 15 weeks now and am super happy and excited that we are almost halfway through our pregnancy. We are 75% sure we know what we are having but... we are waiting to tell everyone until we know for sure in November.  Our appointment today was great and we have a little squirmer... the baby love to kick and turn every which way. I will say I am thrilled at what they think we are having and cant wait to announce it!
Well here is the survey for this week.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Naval Orange

How far along?  
15 weeks 2 days

Due date:
04 April 2013

Total weight gain/loss:
I am at 109 lbs today... I started off at 95 lbs. I have gained 3 lbs this week.

Maternity clothes?
Should be in maternity pants... I cant wear my jeans anymore... if they are done up anyway.
 
Stretch marks?  
None

Sleep:  
Great... can't get enough

Best moment this week:
Feeling the baby for sure kick and let me know... Mommy, caffeine overload!

Movement:  
Yes

Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
 
Food cravings:  
Coffee, Artichoke Dip

Symptoms:
Aches and restless legs
 
Gender prediction:
75% sure we know... Check in November to see what we are having for sure.
 
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
 
Belly Button in or out?
Still in
 
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Excited! I love feeling the baby kick

What I miss:
Being able to dress comfortably

What I am looking forward to:
Finding out 100% what we are having.
 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off
 
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Happy
 
Weekly Wisdom:
Don't take on any extra unneeded stress. 
Oh and Sophia is super cute she says "Baby kick Maddy?" whenever I touch my belly.

Milestones:
Knowing I felt the baby kick

And here is the bump picture for the week.

15 week side bump

15 week front bump

Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi 
 PS I will try to post updated ultrasound pictures later this week. :)
 

02 October, 2012

Week 14

Hey Everyone,
I am 14 weeks now and finally the tiredness is starting to kick in. I am loving my naps! Our last appointment went great and I am super anxious to see our baby next week. We are getting so close to finding out what we are having and I am getting beyond excited. 
Well here is the survey for this week.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Lemon

How far along?  
14 weeks 2 days

Due date:
March 31, 2013

Total weight gain/loss:
Gained 1 lbs this week, total pregnancy 13 lbs gained

Maternity clothes?
Not yet... I refuse so far. 
 
Stretch marks?  
None

Sleep:  
Alright other than having to wake up for aches/pains, to get comfy, and to pee.

Best moment this week:
Feeling remarkably great and being able to get naps.

Movement:  
I think so.

Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
 
Food cravings:  
Coffee, hard boiled eggs, and strawberry shakes

Symptoms:
Aches and restless legs
 
Gender prediction:
Both Daddy and I are thinking it will be a boy
 
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
 
Belly Button in or out?
Still in but having to change to a pregnancy belly ring
 
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Excited but wanting it to be March already so I can see what our baby looks like
 

What I miss:
Sleeping in a normal position

What I am looking forward to:
Feeling the baby move for sure.
 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off most of the time but they still fit when my fingers aren't swollen
 
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Happy
 
Weekly Wisdom:
Think about what you say before you speak so you don't rip peoples heads off.

Milestones:
Nothing really this week.

And here is the bump picture for the week.



Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi 
 PS I will post updated ultrasound pictures later this week. :)
 

26 September, 2012

Week 13

Hey Everyone,
I am now 13 weeks pregnant and loving it for the most part. I am so happy that no matter where you end the first tri we are there! Hopefully soon we will be able to see more of our little baby! I am getting super anxious to know it is a boy or girl. Well we had one appointment so far this week and will have another tomorrow, it will be super exciting to see the baby again. I can't get enough of it! Well here is the survey for this week.

This week, Baby is the size of a: 
Peach
How far along?  
13 weeks 3 days
Due date:
March 31, 2013
Total weight gain/loss:
Gained 5 lbs this week, total pregnancy 13 lbs gained
Maternity clothes?
Not yet... sweats and yoga pants and no jeans will fit comfortably.
Stretch marks?  
None
Sleep:  
Alright other than having to wake up for aches/pains, to get comfy, and to pee.

Best moment this week:
I think I felt the baby move :D
Movement:  
Yep! 
Have you started to show yet:  
Yes!
Food cravings:  
Coffee, Milk and Peanut Butter
Symptoms:
Round Ligament Pain and aches. 
Gender prediction:
Both Daddy and I are thinking it will be a boy
Labor Signs
No, thank goodness.
Belly Button in or out?
Still in
Feeling toward Pregnancy:
Super excited. I wait to see what our baby will look like!
What I miss:
Being able to sleep all the way through the night.
What I am looking forward to:
Feeling the baby move more often. 
Wedding rings on or off?
Off
Happy or Moody most of the time:
Moody
Weekly Wisdom:
Get lots of sleep!

Milestones:
Feeling the baby move for the first time.

And here is the bump picture for the week.
Yep it is definitely there now!


 Well that's all for now. Maybe I will update tomorrow with an ultrasound picture.

Maddy, Jared, Sophia, Baby #1,
Taz, Arrow, and MiMi